??? but what do your words mean? why am i confused? whats an alf?
a goshhalk is a minor bird of prey, is alf an alien sitcom puppet? whats the context here?
choices often have some good some bad as separate factors inextricably linked within a fine tangled weave..
because many separate albeit cohesive things will have many benefits and costs and only if you look deeply can you feel its fathoms..
take for example a vial of poison and a apple
there is no need for the poison .. no balance required
all poison = death
balanced poison/apple = death
all apple = delicious
so look at each part of a choice and recognize its costs and if no clear answer emerges then try to choose the less cruel option
ie.
plant the apple seeds and eat the gift <3
then destroy the poison vial